Stuck in the Mud? Why Calm(ish) Might Be the Best You Can Be (and That’s Enough)

Welcome to the Soft Space

If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in your own thoughts—looping, spiraling, second-guessing—you’re not alone. Welcome to *Calm(ish) Human*, a soft space to grow, stumble, laugh awkwardly, and figure things out one imperfect moment at a time. This blog is about learning how to live with your values in daily life, one awkward moment at a time.

This blog is for the ones who want to live with more intention, connection, and self-compassion—but without pretending they’ve mastered mindfulness or turned into emotionless Zen robots. Whether you’re a practitioner bringing Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) into your work, a stay-at-home parent covered in peanut butter, or a student trying not to cry in the frozen food aisle, you belong here.

Stuck in the Quicksand

Let’s talk about the quicksand. It’s a powerful way to visualize how to live with your values—even when you feel overwhelmed or stuck.

You know the stuff from movies—the more you struggle, the deeper you sink. That’s what it can feel like when you’re caught in anxious thoughts, shame spirals, or endless to-do lists. ACT teaches us not to fight the quicksand. Instead, we *stop struggling* and learn to *lie back* so we can float to the surface. It’s a powerful way to visualize how to live with your values—even when you feel overwhelmed or stuck.

That’s the heart of this blog.

We’re not trying to fix ourselves into better versions. We’re learning how to stop flailing, find stillness, and move toward what matters—even while we feel messy.

What You’ll Find Here

Here’s what you’ll find on *Calm(ish) Human*:
– Gentle guides for applying ACT to real-life social situations (like saying hi without wanting to vanish)
– Exercises and prompts for exploring your values and clarifying what actually matters to you
– Support for helping professionals who want to show up with more authenticity and less burnout
– Humor and honesty, because pretending is exhausting This blog is about learning how to live with your values in daily life, one awkward moment at a time.

Why Calm(ish)?

I’ll share what I’ve learned—and what I’m still learning—about how to live with presence, openness, and psychological flexibility. No perfect morning routines or Instagram-worthy affirmations required.

The “calm(ish)” part? That’s important. It’s a quiet rebellion against perfectionism. A soft exhale in a loud, demanding world. A gentle reminder that you’re allowed to just be here. Present. Not perfect.

Come As You Are

So stay awhile. Wander through posts. Sip your tea. Take what helps, leave what doesn’t. This space is yours too.

Let’s grow—awkwardly, bravely, and together.

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