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    Sweeping Out the Shadows: A Hearth Cleansing Ritual

    September 7, 2025 - By Kit

    Sometimes letting go isn’t just a feeling, it’s a motion. Sweeping floors, rinsing dishes, and tidying shelves became my ritual, my way of sending anger, grief, and old energy out the door. In the quiet of my cottage, under moonlight, cleaning became spell work, mindfulness, and a gentle invitation for…

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    Don’t Believe Everything You Think: Intrusive Thoughts and Their Shenanigans

    September 4, 2025 - By Kit

    Sometimes my brain says things that make me question whether I should even be trusted with safety scissors. Have you ever been cooking and and suddenly, the thought drops in: “what if I just… stuck my hand on that red hot stove burner.” Um, excuse me? What? That, my friend,…

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    Stuck in the Mud?

    August 31, 2025 - By Kit

    Why Calm(ish) Might Be the Best You Can Be — And that’s Enough After a summer storm, the path through the meadow softens. Moss glistens, violets bow their heads under raindrops, and the soil turns to mud. Walking here becomes slower, heavier. Each step pulls at your boots, tugging you…

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    Castles in the Air

    August 27, 2025 - By Kit

    “I’ve got the key to my castle in the air, but whether I can unlock the door remains to be seen.” Jo March, Little Women -Louisa May Alcott- Sometimes I think the hardest thing about being human isn’t the trauma itself. It’s the whiplash of existing between two truths. On…

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    Standing On Desks, Seizing Days, and Discovering Your Own Truth

    August 24, 2025 - By Kit

    Standing on Desks, Seizing Days explores how small acts of courage, reflection, and teaching can leave lasting ripples. Though I never became a classroom teacher, carpe diem reminds me to share what I know, write what matters, and stand taller in my own life.

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    The Quiet Kind of Magic

    August 23, 2025 - By Kit

    A gentle reflection on identity, self-acceptance, and quiet rebellion. Explore moon phase metaphors, ACT practices, and cozy rituals for becoming your truest self—even when you’re still shifting.

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    Little Rebellions: The Sugar Bowl Revolution

    August 22, 2025 - By Kit

    When I cling to little rules—cups stored upside down, laundry only on Sundays—I hand over my peace. Here’s how I start breaking those rules, one small rebellion at a time, and find that the sugar still sweetens the coffee, even when it stays in the bag.

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    Wildflowers, Fences, & the Fourth of July

    July 4, 2025 - By Kit

    Reflections on blooming where you’re not expected to, quiet rebellion, and a little dandelion dirt under your fingernails I’ve been thinking about fences lately. The kind that divide up land like squares on a checkerboard, as if a life—or a country—could be measured in straight lines. The kind of fences…

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    How the Trees Keep Watch While We Fall Apart

    June 26, 2025 - By Kit

    “Look at them trees. Notice how the trees do everything people do to get attention… except walk?” Shug AveryThe Color Purple I’m writing this from a sunlit porch with a rocking chair that creaks like it’s harboring secrets, and a lapful of warm morning light. The hills in front of…

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    Perfection Is Not a Prerequisite for Existence: You Don’t Have to Bloom to Be Worthy of Sunlight

    June 8, 2025 - By Kit

    “No matter how hard you try to be what you once were, you can only be what you are here and now.”― Ray Bradbury, Dandelion Wine Hi friend, A gentle welcome to the meadow. Where being a little lost, tender, or tangled is part of the beauty. You don’t have to be…

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  • Sweeping Out the Shadows: A Hearth Cleansing Ritual
  • Don’t Believe Everything You Think: Intrusive Thoughts and Their Shenanigans
  • Stuck in the Mud?
  • Castles in the Air
  • Standing On Desks, Seizing Days, and Discovering Your Own Truth
  • The Quiet Kind of Magic
  • Little Rebellions: The Sugar Bowl Revolution
  • Wildflowers, Fences, & the Fourth of July
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